Women are always an enigma to men out there. Loving them in a partnership can turn out to be the best thing that ever happened to you, but how can you know in advance that this girl is connecting your future together?
Here are a few pointers to let you know if you’ve got a good deal.
She laughs at your jokes
Your jokes probably aren’t as good as you think, but as long as she thinks you’re hilarious, you’re golden. Laughter heals anything, so it’s a very important foundation for your relationship.
She accepts you as you are
This may seem like an obvious one, but many people end up in relationships where their partner turns them into a new person. She should love you for who you are, not for what you can become after years of hard work.
She trusts you
Love has no place in a relationship where everyone is constantly second-guessing each other. Your partner needs to trust you and trust your actions. Why bother starting a relationship if you’re not the first?
She can overcome your shortcomings
Everyone has flaws and most people only have a minor flaw from damaged goods, so make sure your partner is aware of these flaws and can deal with them. Sure, leaving your socks all over the place might not seem like a huge deal breaker at first, but will she cope once she’s 150?Th Has the sack been found?
She encourages you
This kind of speaks for itself. You don’t want to be in a relationship with a partner where you look at her and go “Jesus, she’s boring.” Find someone who inspires you and encourages you to be the best person you can be.
She makes you feel free
You know what’s a fun relationship? Prison life. Having a partner doesn’t mean you’re suddenly joined at the hip, and it doesn’t mean you have to be. If you can be in a relationship and still be yourself, that’s a good sign.
She values her family and friends
You’re not just starting a relationship with your partner, you’re starting a relationship with their loved ones as well. Make sure there is mutual respect between friends, family and the girl of your dreams and everything will work out.
She is a safe haven
Nothing like a girl when you need it the most. It’s easy to be in love when everything is peachy, but your partner needs to be someone you can count on when the going gets tough.