You don’t have to go through dozens of failed relationships to figure out what real love is, but it helps. It is very important that you know how to differentiate between short term affection and happiness and true love. People confuse these things all the time, which often leads to a painful breakup, and that’s when you realize the person they were with wasn’t their soulmate.
The good news is that some signs can help you figure out that she’s the one!
1. You’re not afraid to look silly in front of each other
Messy bed-hair, nasty drool hanging out of your mouth and a pillow mold on your face – no matter what you look like, that won’t stop your poo from loving you. Of course, it’s normal to feel a little shame about such things at the beginning of a relationship, because many of us want to look better than we actually are. But over time, you start to understand that it doesn’t matter and that no person looks flawless (especially after a rough night). So if your partner is okay with you gaining a few extra pounds, or if a pimple suddenly erupts from your forehead, it could be a sign that affection has evolved into a real feeling.
2. You’re not afraid to discuss the future
Where to go on holiday once this covid horror is over? Which pet to get, and why not a tarantula? Of course, what should you name your kids? If you are making plans together, it is a sign that your partner has become a part of your life. On the other hand, if they don’t care about your side, you can push them away.
3. Honesty is the best policy even if it hurts
When something doesn’t suit you, have the courage to talk about it and find solutions to the problem together. This may be painful and unpleasant to do, but it is normal. Use logic and common sense to support your opinion and don’t be overly emotional. You should do these venting sessions to avoid bad vibes about your partner like some forgotten dates, broken promises, dirty dishes in the sink. These little things can destroy a relationship very fast.
4. you Knows how to find compromises
Compromise is a sign of a mature mind and the ability to listen to the opinions of others. In our current world, it is very difficult to find such a person, but that does not mean that you should stop looking. Almost any problem can be resolved so that both you and your partner are somehow satisfied with the outcome. Frivolous dramas are only good on cheap CW shows. In fact, it is a very difficult process that is capable of destroying even the strongest bonds.
5. You acknowledge your partner’s right to make mistakes
This means you also have the right to make some mistakes, don’t abuse it. Road bumps are inevitable in every relationship, especially in the beginning. But it’s not so much about what you did wrong, it’s about solving the problem. In any fight, bringing up past mistakes is a very bad idea and can lead to unpleasant consequences.
6. Mutual respect is key
The bottom line of any healthy relationship is respect. If your partner knows how to take your feelings and thoughts into account, he is a keeper. Especially if they have to sacrifice something, they value a lot. You know, love is not a short story of who is right and who is wrong; It’s like a 10-volume epic about teamwork, respect and acceptance.
But don’t take my word for it, treat your partner like a man! You can thank me later.